By Paula Bianchi –

Confrontations. Some of us avoid them at all cost, while others seek them out with confidence because they feel they can handle them, and the most negative of us start them every chance they get. Our personality plays a major role in how we’re going to play this mind game.

Before I had gone through therapy, I tried to avoid any kind of confrontation. After therapy, I still try to avoid them, but if I find myself in a situation where I’m facing one, I have more confidence in myself to take care of it.

These days, it seems like we always have to be on guard. Many people choose to never have any eye contact with anyone to avoid being confronted. We may smile at someone to see their reaction. The people who don’t smile back should be given their space, so we can avoid…